Stop being insensitive!


  Okay, 10 oda 11 ah innoru rape and murder case ah yum easy ah marandhutu adutha velaya paka poiduvom. Correct thane, adhaye ethana nal than content aakuradhu. Destigmatise panuveenga nu patha, insensitive ah than aakitey irukeenga! Inum kooda rape is just a consent-less Sex nu arivey illama normalise panra try panravanukellam moola mutti la iruka nu puriyala! 

  Inoruthan adhukum mela poi, “She doesn’t even look pretty; how did those men find her rape-able?” Bro, idhellam unnala dhairiyama post panra alavuku avlo privileged ah irukiya? Seriously, you can wander so freely without realising that you’re being such a jerk and a total disgrace. How could you do that?

  Aduthu kelambitanga, “stop preaching about moral policing men, not everyone is a rapist; not all men!” Do you really think that you or your father, brother or friends are posing safe to other women or even to men? No, absolutely not! Nee unnayo, Unna saarndhavangalayo Epdi nalum perceive panikalam, but elarum Unna apdi nenaikamudiyadhu. It’s not all men, of course, but it’s always a man! 

  And, basically you’re asking why to moral police every men when it’s just one guy who actually did the crime. Bro, this is what women are facing as curtailments in the name of safety precautions, generation after generations!! This just proves that no one should question the male-privileges, huh? 

  Yes, teach everyone to respect everyone. But y’all raising a voice and taking a stand like this at this point of time where attacking any woman at broad daylight and night is being done as a chain of occurrences is totally insensitive! 

  Same group of “self proclaimed woke” men said, “Enna action eduthalum it won’t stop, it will happen for sure! Ivanga lam thirundha matanga!” Dey! Adhuku than da Teach your sons nu solrom, kainaatu! Unaku puriyudha, ennalayum poitu Unna madhri Instagram Stories layo Twitter layo kadhara mudiyum, “We don’t want protection! We need castration!” nu. Indha madhri oru vishyam nadakave koodadhu nu root la irundhu andha system ah seri panna nenaikrom. Nadandhu mudinja aprm victim blaming and oppressing the vulnerables iruka koodadhu nu kekrom. 

  This is so so basic! “Men are physically stronger than women because they gotta protect the latter” idhellam oru point nu thookitu varadheenga, please! This might be valid during the Stone Age. Animals, Invasion la irundhu women and children ah protect panna, some men were stronger and responsible, yes! 

  Ipo adhan civilisation nu oru evolution nadandhu, societal norms kondu vandhu, civilised ah irukom la, inum enna da protection mayiru vendi kadaku? 

  Ne un velaya paru, nan en velaya pakren; Neeyum road la nadandhu po, Nanum poren; sudhandhirama, yarayum depend pannama, en GPS location ah yarukum share pannama, dress ah check pannikama, pepper spray, umbrella or keys ah kai la pudichte nadakama, iruttulayo aatkal illadha edathlayo endha hesitation um illama, inoru saga manushana eyecontact aagirumo nu bayam illama, nimmadhiya nadandhukuren! Idhellam nan yarkitayum demand panna koodadhu. Everything has to be at my free will. Everybody’s free will. If you can’t see that happening, get some help or unalive yourselves.

  So, society, stand by the oppressed and not the oppressors! If you can't bring an order into the system that you compel everyone to abide by, seriously, what's the point of your existence? And, men, if you don’t wanna be taught how to behave humanly, stay at your houses! 

                                     Anisha K

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